Each day, I discover a wealth of information in my explorations of cyberspace. Being true to my nature, I often share my treasures via my online social networks. Alas, oftentimes, much of what I share is disheartening. However, there are moments filled with grace and blessings that serve as a kind of balance for me.
In this balance I have discovered the key for living a full life that, to me, is simply amazing. I am reminded why I have chosen Taoism as the way for me to travel the journey of my life. This belief helps me navigate the storms I sometimes encounter. I feel both grateful and blessed to have discovered this profound, yet, uncomplicated teaching.
The following plays an integral role in helping me to achieve my essential balance. Although I have undoubtedly 'shared' this before, the message is eternal. I shall continue to repeat myself.
The Babemba tribe of southern Africa believes that each human being comes into the world as good. Each one of us only desiring safety, love, peace and happiness.
But sometimes, in the pursuit of these things, people make mistakes.
When a person acts irresponsibly or unjustly, he/she is placed in the center of the village, alone, unfettered. All work ceases. All gather around the accused individual. Then each person of every age, begins to talk out loud to the accused. One at a time, each person tells all the good things the one in the center ever did in his/her lifetime.
Every incident, every experience that can be recalled with any detail and accuracy, is recounted. All positive attributes, good deeds, strengths, and kindnesses are recited carefully and at length.
The tribal ceremony often lasts several days, not ceasing until everyone is drained of every positive comment that can be mustered. At the end, the tribal circle is broken, a joyous celebration takes place, and the person is symbolically and literally welcomed back into the tribe. Necessity for such ceremonies is rare!
This story is originally from the book, Contact, The First Four Minutes by Leonard Sunin. The Babemba or Bemba people make their home in an area of Africa that includes Zambia and the Congo.
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Stephanie Doty
Simply Amazing
May 7, 2014
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